Let all bitterness and wrath and
anger and clamor [perpetual animosity, resentment, strife, fault-finding] and
slander be put away from you, along with every kind of malice [all
spitefulness, verbal abuse, malevolence]. Be kind and helpful to one
another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another
[readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave you.
لِيُرْفَعْ
مِنْ بَيْنِكُمْ كُلُّ مَرَارَةٍ وَسَخَطٍ وَغَضَبٍ وَصِيَاحٍ وَتَجْدِيفٍ مَعَ
كُلِّ خُبْثٍ. 32وَكُونُوا لُطَفَاءَ بَعْضُكُمْ
نَحْوَ بَعْضٍ، شَفُوقِينَ مُتَسَامِحِينَ كَمَا سَامَحَكُمُ اللهُ أَيْضًا فِي
الْمَسِيحِ.
Ephesians 4:31-32
As we see from Jesus’ actions and words in Matthew
21:12-13 anger is not intrinsically wrong.
Anger in response to sin and its ill effects is a form of righteous anger, but
when it crosses over the boundary into bitterness or a spirit of vengeance, it
is not honouring to God.
And Jesus entered the temple [grounds] and
drove out [with force] all who were buying and selling [birds and animals for
sacrifice] in the temple area, and He turned over the tables of the
moneychangers [who made a profit exchanging foreign money for temple coinage]
and the chairs of those who were selling doves [for sacrifice]. 13 Jesus
said to them, “It is written [in Scripture], ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer’;
but you are making it a robbers’ den.”
12وَدَخَلَ يَسُوعُ إِلَى هَيْكَلِ اللهِ
وَأَخْرَجَ جَمِيعَ الَّذِينَ كَانُوا يَبِيعُونَ وَيَشْتَرُونَ فِي الْهَيْكَلِ،
وَقَلَبَ مَوَائِدَ الصَّيَارِفَةِ وَكَرَاسِيَّ بَاعَةِ الْحَمَامِ 13وَقَالَ
لَهُمْ:«مَكْتُوبٌ: بَيْتِي بَيْتَ الصَّلاَةِ يُدْعَى.
وَأَنْتُمْ جَعَلْتُمُوهُ مَغَارَةَ لُصُوصٍ!»
Matthew 21:12-13
Our health and well-being are important reasons for
quick resolution of an angry conflict; bitterness must definitely be avoided.
I invite you to repeat the following prayer
for yourself:
Abba Father, please do not let anger control me. Teach me to resolve
conflict and to replace it with a win-win alternative and to be
tenderhearted toward the person I am having conflict with but without
accepting a martyr lose-win alternative for myself. Please work on their heart
also. Lord, help me to get rid of any desire to get revenge, and to able to
quickly forgive just as You God have forgiven me in Christ. Lord help me to
realize that my total dependence on You to help me forgive is not an indication
of weakness on my part, but a sign of strength and confidence in You and Your
promises. Father, I thank You for Your deep, everlasting, and inseparable love
for me and for Your abundant blessings in my life. In the name of my Lord and
Saviour Jesus The Christ, the only begotten Son of God, I pray. To You Jesus
be the power, the glory, the majesty, the blessings, and the dominion forever
and ever, Amen.
In Him,
Wagdi Henein